PERSONAL

HAPPY FOUR YEARS, HUBS!

Today is our fourth wedding anniversary. To celebrate on the interwebz, I wanted to post pictures from a time in our lives when it was just the two of us (plus the dogs of course!): our honeymoon in Europe. More specifically, I chose to post all of our selfies from the trip because now that we have our beautiful one-year-old, it's a little harder to find time to celebrate ourselves. : ) To my dear husband: you work so hard on a daily basis to keep me (and Brooklyn) happy and healthy, and even though this period in our lives is more hectic, you still take the time to kiss me and tell me how much I mean to you. For these things and so much more, I am so grateful to call you my partner. I love you and appreciate ALL you do! Have fun reminiscing over all the selfies I made you take with me. Let's take another trip soon, mmmmkay? ; )

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2014: A Personal Reflection

Washington-DC-family-photographer-brooklyn_0001 There she is -- all seven pounds, 13 ounces of her. On her first day of life. Let's be completely transparent for a minute: this post will pretty much be ENTIRELY about the life of our sweet daughter, Brooklyn, who was born last May. In my opinion, pregnancy, birth & raising a child is the most rewarding and most difficult/time-consuming thing there is. All mamas probably would agree. So the hubs and I didn't "do" as much as we normally would in any other given year, but we "did" something pretty important. ; ) Life with Brooklyn has been a beautifully chaotic, imperfect journey. Before she was born, I received so much thoughtful advice from all the moms in my life (and I'm so thankful for it and them), but no one can ever really prepare you for motherhood. It is messy at times and leaves you in awe most of the time. There is no instruction manual and you're really just forced to embrace it all at once. And it's a lot easier if you do so with humility and grace (hindsight is a beautiful thing, am I right?). I read a quote this morning by Kristin Armstrong about transitions. Modifying it a little bit, I think it portrays the transition into motherhood pretty perfectly: "Times of transitions are strenuous, but I love them. They are an opportunity … to rethink priorities and be intentional ... We can make our new normal any way we want." I'm so happy and thankful that our darling girl makes our new normal. Now, before I launch into the multitude of photos of our firecracker that I've yet to share, I do want to point out some of our other pre-Brooklyn highlights of 2014...

Three amazing groups of people threw baby showers for us in North Carolina and Maryland and their generosity and love will NEVER be forgotten:

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(My friend Anne-Laure snapped this of me at my baby shower in my hometown and I think my face is hysterical. Thanks AL!)

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WE BOUGHT OUR FIRST HOME!!! (excuse the quality - iPhone pic!)

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I got to see some of my most favorite people all in one place in early January (let's keep those reunions going, ladies!):

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We saw our favorite band, The Avett Brothers, in concert, I learned how to knit and did a couple DIY projects for baby girl and we got snowed in a few times (all iPhone - I got lazy during my last months of pregnancy!):

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Ryan got sworn in to the D.C. Bar (again with the iPhone, haha); SO PROUD OF HIM!

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We went on our babymoon to NYC (where we fell in love) and had our maternity photos taken at 28 weeks by my talented friend, Kate Lord:

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And leading up to Brooklyn's due date, the hubs and I took LOTS of walks and he snapped a few photos of me at 37 weeks...

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...and 39 weeks:

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And then two weeks later, our lives changed forever!

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My parents surprised me IN THE HOSPITAL by driving up for B's birth. I was so touched!Washington-DC-family-photographer-brooklyn_0003Washington-DC-family-photographer-brooklyn_0004Washington-DC-family-photographer-brooklyn_0005Washington-DC-family-photographer-brooklyn_0006Washington-DC-family-photographer-brooklyn_0007Washington-DC-family-photographer-brooklyn_0008Washington-DC-family-photographer-brooklyn_0009Washington-DC-family-photographer-brooklyn_0010Washington-DC-family-photographer-brooklyn_0011Washington-DC-family-photographer-brooklyn_0012

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Grandpa and Nanny (Ryan's parents) live nearby and we're so glad for that!

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We celebrated our third wedding anniversary by going out to lunch. This photo was taken right before we left her for the first time!

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We're fortunate to have really good friends nearby. This is Eleanor!

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We went on a mini-vacation with my parents, uncles and brother's family to Virginia Beach in mid-July when B got to meet her cousins for the first time!

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More play dates with Eleanor! : )Washington-DC-family-photographer-brooklyn_0060Washington-DC-family-photographer-brooklyn_0061Washington-DC-family-photographer-brooklyn_0062

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Meeting Noah for the first time when Anne-Laure and Dallas were in the US for a visit. Brooklyn LOVED Noah.

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Catching up with her good pal Harrison. : )Washington-DC-family-photographer-brooklyn_0093

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We went to Sunset Beach and Wilmington, North Carolina in mid-October. Such a special first vacation.

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Halloween! Shepherd and little lamb. : )

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Thanksgiving!

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Our little lady turned eight months old yesterday. These photos bring her up to about 6.5 months. "The days are long but the months are short" -- TRUTH. My heart is so full.

TOASTING 2014 + LOOKING AHEAD!

Melissa Tuck Photography had another wonderful year thanks to the best clients one could imagine! My camera had less clicks than ever before due to my pregnancy and maternity leave in the spring (but what I lacked professionally, I made up for personally). I only shot nine weddings (in comparison to 22 in 2013 and 28 in 2012), BUT I realized last year's weddings did put me at a certain milestone: I've now shot more than 100 weddings since starting my business in 2009! *Insert happy dance and proud face here.* Last year, I also shot three engagement sessions, one bridal session, 16 baby/family/maternity sessions and one baby shower. It is so incredible to me that within a year's time, I can be shooting a baby shower turned newborn session, a newborn session turned one-year-old session, a maternity session turned three-week-old session ... you get the picture. ; ) I'm so thankful that my clients (who are friends now, really) keep contacting me beyond their wedding day so that I can see their families grow! Even though the main reason for shooting less last year was my pregnancy and giving birth, I also intentionally booked less on average to better balance my work + life flow. I felt less stressed and it also enabled me to give more time + attention to every client I did serve. Since having Brooklyn and becoming a stay-at-home mom, I have had to learn how to work again in a completely different way. I've learned to prioritize my time better (hellooooo nap time!), work more efficiently, ask for help when I need it (my mother-in-law has been a lifesaver during busy editing season) and set strict office hours to spend time with my little family in the evenings. It hasn't been easy, but it's worked, and I'm happy and encouraged to move forward with my new set of skills juggling work and the babe. : )

In 2014, I was featured in several wedding blogs that I admire: Borrowed & Blue blog, Every Last Detail blog, Daily Dog Tag blog, Glamour & Grace blog, Heart Love Always blog & Charm City Wed blog. Thank you to all the editors for your willingness to share my work! I'm excited to submit my weddings and shoots from 2014 to more publications over the next several months!

Now, a note about reflection and goals. It's the beginning of a new year and the best time to think about what did and didn't work in the past and how I can improve moving ahead. I know a lot of other photographers blog in depth about their yearly (sometimes monthly) goals; I never have and maybe I'll start doing it if I need to hold myself more accountable. But for now, I'll just share a few important things on my mind for 2015:

1) I intend to focus more on family/baby/newborn/maternity sessions. As the seasons in my own life change, I've found that my professional interests have shifted. This DOESN'T mean that I won't be shooting weddings and that I don't enjoy them anymore. I still love documenting weddings, but I'll just be targeting a limited number of weddings and very few of them will be out of town. After having a baby and caring for her on a daily basis, it's just way too difficult to travel as much as I have in the past and I want to focus on more local weddings to the DC/Maryland/northern Virginia area. I've already hit more than half my goal for this year's weddings so please contact me soon if you're recently engaged and interested!

2) I want to give my presence on the web a little makeover and streamline my sites. I've seen a gradual shift to consolidate portfolio and blog sites to all one URL (for example, have www.melissatuckphoto.com & www.melissatuckblog.com linked together) and I like it. On top of that, I need to make my web presence strictly mobile-friendly (my Flash-based portfolio site - melissatuckphoto - is not viewable on phones or tablets), and I need to get on that seeing as how everyone is so mobile these days! I'm also going to switch my gallery/reprint site to a more photo-driven/friendly company that will offer immediate high-res downloads for clients. More to come on that later!

3) I want to photograph a live birth. If you know someone who may be willing local to me, please send them my way in the comments!

4) Do at least one session pro bono. I used to make this a priority and I fell slack last year. Back in 2011, I photographed babies in the NICU for families who weren't able to take home their babies right away and I may do it again. Any other great ideas? Leave a comment for me!

5) Because I moved from Georgia to the Maryland/DC/Virginia area last year, I'm looking to spread the word more locally about my business. To do so, I will be running a contest that offers a free session soon on the blog. Be on the lookout!

Lastly, I can't thank my hubby, family, friends, clients and MTP Insta and Facebook fans enough for all of your support and love. You continue to inspire me and my work. Please enjoy photo highlights (two from each shoot, in order!)  from my year. Next week, I plan to blog about the personal side of 2014. Spoiler (or not-so-spoiler) -alert: It will surely be Brooklyn-centric. ; )

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BROOKLYN: Photos by Anna Routh Photography

Even though I've uploaded overloaded my Instagram followers' feeds with photos of my daughter, Brooklyn still hasn't gotten much face time on the blog yet. With a pretty busy summer and fall season, I put off editing a LOT of personal photos until this winter. I have many moments from her life to share coming up on the blog. But first, I wanted to share a few favorites from our family session with Anna Routh Photography when Brooklyn was just three weeks old. Anna is a friend of mine and she is SUCH a lovely person. I've admired her beautiful work for awhile, and I was SO happy she could squeeze in a session for us when she was visiting DC. I encourage you to go see more of Anna's photos on her blog and her favorites from our session HERE. Thanks for a wonderful time, Anna. We'll cherish these photos forever. Happy New Year, everyone! I hope everyone has oodles of fun and is safe celebrating tonight! I am taking a few days away to relax with the familia. : ) I will be back at my computer the week of January 5th, and during that week, I plan to blog my last wedding of 2014 and post my 2014 business recap! See y'all in the new year.

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I was so thrilled she grabbed some photos of our furry children!

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Brooklyn's nursery is so special because it is filled with handmade things from friends.

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My good friend Mary painted the canvas on the right, and I knitted the blanket on the glider.

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I sewed the heart mobile during my third trimester, and I embroidered the alphabet even before we found out we were pregnant with Brooklyn. : )

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The blue bowl was spun by Ryan's dad, the "You Are So Loved" piece was illustrated/painted by my good friend Becca and the embroidery was done by my good friend Danielle's mama. <3.

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I included this photo of Bella because it was "her spot" during the first few months of Brooklyn's life. I had a bit of a hard time with breastfeeding and spent countless hours in the glider feeding Brooklyn, and Bella was always by my side.

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We printed the below photo as a canvas. That hoodie...too much!!!

We actually requested Anna take these photos. We thought Brooklyn looked so funny when we burped her like this (how the pediatrician actually recommended we do it). That face!!!

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CHEERS TO THE NEW YEAR!

2014-Holidaycard-SS We couldn't resist using the top photo in our holiday card this year. Brooklyn looks like she's punching herself and she's making the MOST hysterical face. I had plans of writing "We hope you have a "knockout" of a New Year!" but Shutterfly's design wouldn't let me edit the text and in my 11 p.m. haze of ordering the card, it was all I could do to get photos together to fill the spaces. : ) And plus, taking a decent photo with three furry children and a squirmy, wanna-be-active-all-the-time six-month-old is nearly impossible. I think my dad found a new appreciation for my job that day when he took our family photo. ; )

Whatever and however you celebrate, the Tuck family wishes you the brightest, happiest holiday season. I'm going to be away from my computer until after the new year. When I return, I plan to blog my last remaining wedding from 2014 (looking at you Mer & Ryan!), my annual Year in Review (yay weddings and families and babies!) and a couple of posts about Brooklyn (since I've YET to do hardly any!). Lots of love!

(Thanks to Anna Routh Photography for the bottom left photo of Brooklyn. Going to share more images soon from the session she did for us when the little lady was three weeks old!)